Feeling good about yourself
Hello beauties! Today I was thinking a lot about this topic, maybe because I just watched a few YouTube beauty gurus talking about this a little bit. The topic is being happy, being confident, not letting anyone bring you down.
I've always been very self consious of myself, of my body, face, hair....okay everything! I've never been the skinny girl, the pretty girl, the popular girl. All through school I was made fun of because of something. Because of my skin, my weight, that I was quiet and awkward. But, now that I've gotten older (I'm 39 btw) I've come to realize that what other people say about me is none of my business.
If people want to talk about me, point at me, call me names, that's their problem, not mine. I'm happy with my life, my body, my everything! Do I want to lose weight? Absolutely!! Am I working to make myself better everyday? You better believe it! Can I, myself, be a better person all around? Yes! But again, I don't go around making fun of other people because of how they look, how they dress, how they act. (But if you're acting like a fool, that's a different story! haha)
So, after many many years of feeling like I wasn't good enough, pretty enough, popular enough, I said to myself "Get a grip girly!" I learned to love myself for how I am today, not what I can be tomorrow or what I was yesterday. I feel pretty. I feel smart. My husband thinks I'm beautiful with makeup but he thinks I'm more beautiful without makeup. (Yes ladies, I have a great man!) I'm blessed, I'm thankful for all I have in this life of mine. Thankful for my past because it made me realize I'm better today.
Now, are there days that it bothers me if I hear someone say "Look at that one, she's too fat"? Yes, I still have days that it makes me go home and cry a little, but then I say "Why are you letting someone you don't know ruin a good day?" Then I pull myself together and put that smile back on my face and be a better me.
So my words for all of you ladies, gentlemen, children and whoever else may be reading this....DON'T LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN!!! Always be happy with yourself, be happy with your life and your choices. Even if you think you're having the worst day possible, realize that you're having a day of living and breathing. Some people are taking their last breath and here you are just having a "bad day".
Be happy. Be confident. Be loving. Be caring. Be smart. Be good. Be thankful. Be blessed. Just be you!
Now go out there and live your life to the fullest, makeup or not, great outfit or pajamas!
This is a long one, but read it and live these words!!
I love you all 💖😘Much love and until next time......😘💄
I've always been very self consious of myself, of my body, face, hair....okay everything! I've never been the skinny girl, the pretty girl, the popular girl. All through school I was made fun of because of something. Because of my skin, my weight, that I was quiet and awkward. But, now that I've gotten older (I'm 39 btw) I've come to realize that what other people say about me is none of my business.
If people want to talk about me, point at me, call me names, that's their problem, not mine. I'm happy with my life, my body, my everything! Do I want to lose weight? Absolutely!! Am I working to make myself better everyday? You better believe it! Can I, myself, be a better person all around? Yes! But again, I don't go around making fun of other people because of how they look, how they dress, how they act. (But if you're acting like a fool, that's a different story! haha)
So, after many many years of feeling like I wasn't good enough, pretty enough, popular enough, I said to myself "Get a grip girly!" I learned to love myself for how I am today, not what I can be tomorrow or what I was yesterday. I feel pretty. I feel smart. My husband thinks I'm beautiful with makeup but he thinks I'm more beautiful without makeup. (Yes ladies, I have a great man!) I'm blessed, I'm thankful for all I have in this life of mine. Thankful for my past because it made me realize I'm better today.
Now, are there days that it bothers me if I hear someone say "Look at that one, she's too fat"? Yes, I still have days that it makes me go home and cry a little, but then I say "Why are you letting someone you don't know ruin a good day?" Then I pull myself together and put that smile back on my face and be a better me.
So my words for all of you ladies, gentlemen, children and whoever else may be reading this....DON'T LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN!!! Always be happy with yourself, be happy with your life and your choices. Even if you think you're having the worst day possible, realize that you're having a day of living and breathing. Some people are taking their last breath and here you are just having a "bad day".
Be happy. Be confident. Be loving. Be caring. Be smart. Be good. Be thankful. Be blessed. Just be you!
Now go out there and live your life to the fullest, makeup or not, great outfit or pajamas!
This is a long one, but read it and live these words!!
I love you all 💖😘Much love and until next time......😘💄
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